Don'ts and Dos

DON'Ts

Wishing me a happy Christmas and a Happy New Year 

To me it sounds like a mokery, because this is the time of the year when I lost my best half - Alberto. It's like you wished me "Happy All Souls Day".

The fastest this period of the year passes, the best. 

Ask me "how are you"

Tired and depressed. The same as I've been for almost 8 years. This year more than ever. 

Nobody and nothing can "undo" Alberto's death, my mum stroke, the lost of my jobs and all the rest that happened and keeps happening to me. 

Give me presents

I already have many presents that I cannot share with Alberto, and I don't need others. 

If you really want to give me something or comfort me you can... 

DOs

Give me money or useful things

My bank account IBAN will change in 2021, although any money transfer to the old one will be automatically deposited in the new one. 

Here's the new one:

IBAN - IT89 X030 6963 9091 0000 0003 864

And if you don't like to give money as a "present", here's my Amazon's wish list: 

https://www.amazon.it/hz/wishlist/dl/invite/bfNUYzB?ref_=wl_share

Chat and talk about Star Trek or Doctor Who

These fictional universes and their fandoms are probably the only things that can cheer me up. I can talk and debate about them without thinking about my reality and that improves my mood.

Tell me what you wish me to do if I'll be elected among STIC-AL's "bridge officers" 

The club is definitely the only thing that truly keeps me going on. My wish is to transfor the "Admiralty" into a museum of Trek History in Italy and to care for all the STIC-AL members, old and new, because... as I said many times, you are the children Alberto and I never had. And it's time to act like a "mum" again. 

Thank you, to you all. Always.